Even though some riders like motorcycles because they give them a chance to escape from their partner or their family life for a short while, my boyfriend and I absolutely love riding together, as it helps us increase our intimacy and build a stronger relationship. From planning our routes to the beautiful experiences we make along the way, we cherish every part of our little adventures. Here is how our road trips usually begin, and why we enjoy spending time together on the road:
Planning the road trip route
As we are a couple who likes to plan everything out in advance, we rarely hit the road without at least a loose schedule in mind. This time, we’ve opted for a shorter route and a more relaxed weekend trip, riding from Sydney to Jervis Bay. Even though a direct ride would take only about two and a half hours, we’ve decided to derail a bit and take a few stops along the way. As we head south, we plan to visit the Royal Nation Park before we start the Grand Pacific Drive, which will take us along the coast towards Wollongong and Shoalhaven, and over the famous Sea Cliff Bridge, before finally continuing to our favorite south coast region, Jervis Bay. This nice and easy ride will undoubtedly be ideal for an unwinding weekend road trip.
Preparing our bike for the trip
Both my boyfriend and I believe that conducting proper maintenance on our bike before we hit the road is absolutely essential, as it gives us the opportunity to make any repairs in advance, and get ahead of the maintenance that needs to be done on a certain mileage. Since anything from worn tires to stuck cables and old brake pads can present a serious risk during our ride, we like to ensure everything is functioning optimally before we leave for the trip. Apart from opting for gel seats and a backrest for added comfort, we also like to add extra storage to our bike with tail or saddlebags, to make sure we have enough room to pack anything we might need for the trip.
Ensuring we are safe and sound
Before my boyfriend and I set off on any trip, the first and most important thing we always do is get comprehensive motorcycle insurance, to make sure we are safe and secure no matter what happens on the road. We always opt for the total package, one that covers everything from accidents and natural disasters to theft and damage, and even offers emergency roadside assistance, as we like to ensure our bike is as safe as we are on the road. But no matter which type of insurance you opt for, knowing you are completely covered in case of emergencies and accidents will give you some peace of mind, and allow you to fully enjoy your ride together.
Why we love riding together
Although we live together, both my boyfriend and I lead quite busy lives that cause us to spend much less time with each other than we would like. But when we ride together, we share focused, quality time with each other that often brings us closer together and leads to a happier and healthier relationship. As we share a common hobby, and therefore have very similar goals and priorities, riding together also makes for a healthy bonding experience, and it gives us endless more topics to chat about when we stop for a short break. Not to mention all the beautiful memories we make along the way that we can always share with each other.
How it affects our relationship
While our home might not always be a good environment for conversation, getting out on the bike and talking at our favourite cafe stops puts us in a much more productive environment for good communication. What’s more, the Bluetooth devices we have allow us to continue talking while we ride, commenting on the breathtaking sceneries we see along the way, and discussing certain issues without arguing. And the intimacy we share by constantly touching while we’re on the bike might also lead to even more physical bonding once we finally reach our destination.
From planning and preparing for our adventurous road trips to bonding in unique ways while on the road, riding a motorcycle with my boyfriend helps us build a happier and stronger relationship, which is why it’s our absolute favourite activity.
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