It’s a dilemma faced by couples with kids the world over: You want to celebrate your anniversary, but you can’t find anyone to watch the kids.
Fortunately, there are still plenty of creative and romantic ways to celebrate your special day even when you can’t get a hold of the babysitter.
1. Opt for Some Traditional Gift-Giving
When going out for the evening is off the cards, a thoughtful present is a great way to ensure that the night still feels special. For a classic, symbolic gift, pick out a present for your spouse that matches your anniversary milestone theme.
For example, if you’ve been married for five years, your theme is wood, which symbolises strength and wisdom. You can opt for something just for him, like romantic wooden cufflinks to remind him of your wedding day, or choose a gift you can both enjoy, like a hand-carved wooden chess set to add some old-world charm to your living room.
You can even involve the kids in your theme by presenting them with engraved music boxes. Or, if you’re feeling generous, you might even splurge on a wooden cubby house.
Need more anniversary gift-by-year ideas? This comprehensive guide walks you through popular gift options and also provides an overview of the tradition’s history
2. Have a Romantic Dinner at Home
With a little planning, you can recreate all the charm of a night out at home. First, feed your kids early. Then set up your dining room with a fresh white tablecloth, tapered candles and soft classical music to achieve that special ‘restaurant feel’. Then, whip up a meal that is special to both of you.
Studies show that cooking together can be a romantic treat that’ll make you feel more connected to your partner, and older children will often be happy to act as sous chefs or waiters. But if you want to skip the washing up, consider ordering in from one of your favourite restaurants.
3. Take a Family Holiday
If money allows, taking a trip as a whole family is a fantastic way to escape the daily grind and build new memories with the kids.
Choose a location that has something everyone can enjoy, like a water park or camping ground. Be sure to look into the activities on offer, as a lot of establishments provide activities to keep the kids busy for a few hours at a time, like sports or craft workshops. This’ll give you a chance to reconnect with your husband and enjoy some well-deserved one on one time. You may even be able to find a venue close by that offers couples’ massages or a relaxing spa experience.
4. Bring the City of Love Home
Just because you can’t jet off to Paris doesn’t mean you can’t bring the magic of the city of love into your own home.
Once you’ve tucked the kids into bed, it’s time to break out a glorious cheese platter to nibble on. Pair it with a sensual combo of champagne and strawberries to really get the romance flowing. To keep with the mood, you might want to watch a classic French film (think Dangerous Liaisons) together or put on your favourite French soundtrack (Amelie is a winner!). Follow these steps and the language of love will be flowing before you even take things up to the bedroom!
Once we have kids, we can’t always be as spontaneous and romantic as we used to be. However, with a bit of creativity and a little patience, there are still plenty of ways to celebrate your anniversary in style.
