Sadly, a lot of people repress their sexual desires out of fear of ridicule and judgment. Despite the undeniable fact that we live in a very accepting and extremely tolerant society, these fears of ridicule and judgment regularly stop people from achieving total, full sexual satisfaction.
If you are unfortunate enough to be a person who does not chase their sexual desires and live out their fantasies for fear of being laughed at, this post has you covered. In it, you will learn how to embrace your sexual preferences without having to worry about these things.
Sexual Experimentation
Before you can embrace your sexual preferences, you need to find out what they are. If for the majority of your life, you have repressed your desires then it is very likely you won’t even know what turns you on. A good way of experimenting is trying new things like buying BDSM toys or watching types of pornography you ordinarily wouldn’t. As far as the use of toys goes, you need to make sure you are totally confident before you begin using them. You also need to make sure that you start off slowly if you are using penetrative toys. In terms of experimenting with pornography, it’s essential that you only watch genres you are confident with. Under no circumstances should you ever watch porn that does not turn you on. If what you are watching makes you uncomfortable, turn it off right away.
Anonymous Sex
Did you know there are actually clubs that you can go to where you can have sex with strangers? If you are nervous about expressing yourself and do not have the confidence to initiate new acts of sex that fulfill your fantasies with your lovers then why not go to such a club? Venturing into a sex club isn’t something that will be easy for you to do if you suffer from anxiety but it is nonetheless still a good idea. While the idea of having sex with strangers is indeed daunting, rest assured that if you go to a professional club everybody there will be vetted, checked for infections, and feel the exact same way as you. Some clubs allow you to wear a mask, which is great for people who are nervous about being looked at, spotted, or having people recognize their faces from somewhere else.
Mutual Interests
There are dating apps and sites you can use that allow you to advertise your interests to other people. Using these sites can be a highly effective way of expressing yourself and finding people to have sex with. On them, all you have to do is notify the people with whom you match your interests, then ask if they would be interested in trying them out with you. If they agree then you have nothing to be ashamed of as they share your interests and are just as interested in trying them out as you are.
Embracing your sexual preferences is an important part of learning to love yourself. If you do not feel comfortable expressing yourself then now’s the time to take action and change things. Love yourself for who you are and do not feel any shame when it comes to expressing yourself.
