We often talk about how important it is to find the right partner to swing on the waves of life, the one who will be near, no matter what happens. The choice of that person is one of the most important decisions in a man’s life. The woman with whom you decide to share your world will be your best friend and the main support. But what makes a perfect girlfriend?
- Character
Beauty isn’t only about how you look but what you are. We want to find the one who not only works on her appearance but also tries to be sincere, real. Girls always act naturally with their friends, so why not do the same for a partner? We see them laughing when they’re with their loved ones, and we want them to be the same with us. We like girls with a great sense of humor who don’t take life too seriously. Be yourself. Order a cheeseburger for lunch. Get ketchup all over your face – it’s not scary.
Feel free to meet us in a T-shirt or tracksuit. Forget about makeup and styling at least for a while – we like that too. Well, yes, we’re pleased when you dress up and look fancy, but you don’t need to do this only to earn our approval. When a woman feels obligated to do this, then she’s with the wrong man. If that’s the type of partner you want to see by your side, consider online dating – check it out.
- (Self) respect
The way the girl presents herself says a lot. We’re not talking about clothes that emphasize the best parts (although we don’t see anything bad in it). We’re talking about social media. They’re your showcase. Where you go and with whom, what, and how you say characterizes you as a person. And to be honest, we’re rarely attracted to girls who don’t care where to go to have fun. Guys who are looking for “popular” girls may still like this, but real men don’t play such games.
We’ll always prefer a woman who reads a book at home over the one who gets drunk with friends on weekends. Your life doesn’t have to be an open book: you need at least some intrigue. The less we know about someone’s life, the more interesting this person is for us. This motivates us to search, ask questions, and dig deeper. This way, conversations become more meaningful. And if we’re always aware of where you were and what you did, where’s the intriguing part?
- Sensitivity
Men are creatures of flesh and blood. Everything in us comes to life from one touch. And, of course, we’re attracted to women who has no limits when it comes to showing feelings. You want us to take your hand, kiss, hug, and ask how your day went. And we want the same thing! This helps us feel welcome and strengthens the connection with the partner.
- Intelligence
Life is more than a new handbag, designer shoes, and a new episode of your favorite series. Although we ourselves enjoy binge watching sometimes. But conversations with a smart woman who knows a lot about the world around and strives to make it better turn us on. Such ladies think critically and affect our feelings. Not every decision in life can be made without hesitation, and when you feel insecure, it’s especially useful if there’s someone nearby who will help make the right decision. For this, you don’t need a Harvard degree – only intelligence and the ability to think and understand.
- Modesty
The energy of humble people is directed at others, and for a man in search of a life partner, this is a very attractive feature. Humble women empathize with others, putting their interests above their own, but they do so in such a way that they find peace and protection. In such a relationship, our ego doesn’t suffer.
Of course, there’s something about playing a game called “find a path to my heart,” but it takes a lot of energy. And please, if we speak directly to you about our feelings and how beautiful you are, don’t look at us as if we’re idiots. It takes a lot of courage to say that.
We are used to thinking that appearance, popularity, and social status can help a girl find true love, but this is not so. In fact, only who you are is important. We need you with all the potential flaws.
