For some people, going on a first date is the equivalent of performing naked in front of a crowd of people. In other words, it’s enough to give us a heart attack trying to figure out how we’re going to make a good impression.
The good news is that a first date doesn’t have to be a nightmare. There are plenty of ways to make a first date not only fun, but maybe even unforgettable. When you’re so nervous, it can be difficult to make a positive impression on someone. To help you calm your nerves, and put your best foot forward, here are some of the best tips for making a great impression on a first date.
Be Generous
If you’re going out with someone that automatically expects you to cover the bill, then you probably shouldn’t go on a date with that person again. However, being generous unexpectedly can make a wonderful first impression, especially if you’re trying to make one.
If you find yourself with major butterflies on your date, then don’t be afraid to find the nearest ATM, and buy them something special. Generosity doesn’t just me and material offerings either. You could open doors for them, pick flowers, or anything else that you consider to be an act of generosity.
Ask Questions
So many people are used to talking all the time, that they forget the importance of asking questions. Get to know the other person and inquire as much as you can. Ask about their hobbies, their friends and family, and don’t forget the take the time to let them finish their phrases before interjecting them.
Try not to talk too much about yourself unless they ask. Hopefully, they ask you plenty of questions too, and you’ll find a perfect balance in your conversation.
Talk About Real Things
If you’ve been in the dating pool for a while, then you know how exhausting it gets making mindless small talk. Instead of endlessly talking about things that don’t actually matter in the big picture, talk about something meaningful to you and to them. Talking in-depth about things that actually matter is the best way to get to know someone quickly.
Sitting there talking about the weather and your favorite sports team can be fun for a few minutes, but is that really going to show you if you’re compatible?
Make Plenty of Eye Contact
Eye contact is the key to making a deep connection. The more you can make eye contact, the more you will get close to the person you’re talking to, and the more they’ll feel like you’re really engaging with them. On top of making eye contact, also consider saying their first name a few times at the end of sentences. Just don’t go overboard, as this can come across as creepy if you go overboard. Above all, have fun and be yourself!
